Elder Grilliot in Uganda
Monday, March 25, 2013
New Companion Elder Cobabe
Transfers were
again this week, and guess what! I'm still staying in Lira, and now I'm on my
fourth companion (fifth including the MTC). Elder Wangui, got sent to Jinja,
and now I have a new companion named Elder Cobabe from Salt lake city, Utah.
He's a pretty cool guy, he actually reminds me alot of Todd in his speech and
sense of humor. I think we'll get along really well.
Monday, March 18, 2013
Answer Time!!!!!
One of the coolest, and most annoying things about Uganda is
how much people judge you for the color of your skin out here. Some people out
here I've realized are actually very racist against whites, and others view us whites
as more privileged beings. It doesn't matter where your from, people out here
automatically judge you just by what color your skin is. Sometimes it is
annoying but other times you can make it work to your advantage.
Missionary work is really doing well out here, I'm glad to
be serving in Lira and I hope that I stay here next transfer. This week was
zone conference so President Jackson and the Assistants came down to Lira and
we got a chance to talk with them. They were telling us about how places like
Rwanda and South Sudan are doing with missionary work. Rwanda is just exploding
right now, in about 8 months Rwanda went from 1 branch to 3. The most amazing
thing about this is that Rwanda doesn't even have a proselyting license yet,
which basically means that the only way that missionaries can teach is if
someone walks into the church grounds and asks to be taught. But not
withstanding this, Rwanda missionaries are baptizing like crazy. As soon as
missionaries can start proselyting there, the work is just going to ignite.
-Elder Grilliot
1.
What is the largest bug you’ve encountered so far? I know
how much you love bugs, especially moths. (Hehehe)
The biggest bug I've seen so far is the size
of Sarah. He's getting prepared to be baptized this week.
2.
What time
do you get up each morning?
Each morning I get up at 6:30 am
3.
You
said you had pizza there.. did it taste like American pizza?
The pizza is really good. I don't know how to
compare it to American Pizza because it’s been so long since I've had any, but
the pizza here is pretty good compared to anything else.
4.
Are you
getting a new area transfer this week?
Transfers are next week. Not sure yet if I'm
leaving or not though.
5.
What is the
most surprising thing that has happened to you this week? Was there a
small miracle you can share that happened this last week?
One small miracle that happened this week was on
Sunday. There was a member of our church who was getting ready to serve a
mission and then all of the sudden he completely disappeared. No one really
knew what happened to him or where he stayed. Then one day as my companion and
i were moving around one day we accidentally tracked into his mothers house. We
found him and he was in a pretty bad condition, he had mallaria and typhoid. We
were able to give him a blessing, and it was one of the most guided blessings I
have ever given, I told him specifically that if he will diligently read his
book of Mormon then he will be healed of mallaria and typhoid in 3 days, and
that he will never have the diseases ever again in his life according to his
diligence in keeping the commandments. It felt pretty cool, I hope I see him at
church next week.
6.
How is it
going working with your companion? I feel bad he lost his mom. Tell
him I am praying for him too.
My companion is struggling big time. Honestly some
days I have to teach all the lessons on my own just because of how dead he is.
I feel really bad for the guy, but working with him can sometimes be
emotionally and spiritually draining. Transfers are happening this week, so
maybe we will be separated on Wednesday
7.
What is the
one thing you've learned about yourself while out in Lira serving as a
missionary?
I've
learned that I started my mission with lots of weight to loose. I've also
learned how much I love and value the scriptures.
8.
Has the
weather changed there like it is changing here, maybe less hot? We moved
our clocks ahead so it is lighter out later now. The snow is nearly all
melted and the weather is feeling a little bit more like spring, but still very
rainy here.
Last week
it rained like crazy, but now it's back to being a desert in Lira. The rainy
season can't be too far off though, I know that it's in full swing in some
parts of Uganda.
9.
I’m hearing
from my LDS MOM email group a lot of missionaries are getting sent to
Ethiopia. Are you hearing of new areas being opened?
The mission in Ethiopia got pretty much completely
white washed. They're preparing Ethiopia to be its own mission in the next year
or so, so they took out alot of people from Ethiopia and just put in tons of
new missionaries. They are just kind of a rebirth for the mission in that
country.
10.
Do you have
primary or YM/YW in your branch/ward?
Yes to all three
11.
If you
could sharpen/ improve one quality in yourself what would it be?
I wish that I could improve my teaching skills,
I'm not bad at teaching, but I just wish that I was better at it. There in a
huge difference between Ugandans and Americans, and you have to really analyze
people as you teach, because most people are great liars out here.
12.
What is
something in particular you would like to specifically pray for in our Family
Prayers for you?
Pray that I can work out every morning, that is one of the
toughest things for me to do most days.
THANKS
THANKS
Dear Dad,
Thanks for the complements on my writing. I think all of the writing I do in my journal has been paying off, ha ha. Your questions are a lot more difficult to answer than moms are but I'll try my best to answer them.
Thanks for the complements on my writing. I think all of the writing I do in my journal has been paying off, ha ha. Your questions are a lot more difficult to answer than moms are but I'll try my best to answer them.
1. Can you describe to me where your
apartment is located in Lira? I can bring up a map of Lira on Google Maps
with names of all the main roads, so if you can give me a detailed location
description, I bet I can pinpoint it. I can probably even pick out the
building on satellite view, since it’s high resolution, you can see every
structure, and lots of things are labeled (like the Downtown Medical Centre,
and all the schools. No “street view” though.) Also, where do the
branches meet, and where do the other Elders live? Also, while you’re at
it, where is your internet café located, and anywhere else you frequently
visit?
My apartment in Lira is right next
to a small school named Almond Collage. I'm not sure what any of the streets
are named so i had to cheat and go on Google maps. So on Google maps there’s a
street named Kole Road. if you turn off of Kole road like you’re going to
Almond Collage the first house on the left is where we stay. It almost looks
like there is a truck in our compound when you look at Satellite view.
Our Branch is found like this. If you go down Kole Road towards Teso Bar Rd then you will find a school named Karadali Nursery School. Cross Nubi Road and on the Left side of Kole road there is a large building with a blue roof. That's where our branch meets.
I email from a place called Sankofa Cafe in Lira. It’s a pretty big landmark, I think that you should be able to find it fairly easily by just typing it into Google maps.
Our Branch is found like this. If you go down Kole Road towards Teso Bar Rd then you will find a school named Karadali Nursery School. Cross Nubi Road and on the Left side of Kole road there is a large building with a blue roof. That's where our branch meets.
I email from a place called Sankofa Cafe in Lira. It’s a pretty big landmark, I think that you should be able to find it fairly easily by just typing it into Google maps.
2. Have you heard anything about the
number of missionaries in your mission increasing in the near future?
They told us at Stake Conference last week that with the missionary force
worldwide increasing from about 60,000 to over 100,000, the number of
missionaries per mission will be increasing to 250 (I think the standard number
before was 180, but this might just be for the states), and that there will
probably be 2 sets of missionaries in every unit. Not sure how that would
translate to Uganda, but do you know if more missionaries are arriving than are
going home?
We’re supposed to be getting an
increase of 60 missionaries in the next 6 months. Which means that were going
to be getting a ton soon, because were losing like 80 missionaries in the next
4 months (which is like 70% of our mission).
3. What is the approximate ratios of
Elders to Sisters in your mission? Are there many Sisters from the
states?
In our whole mission there are like
12 sisters. The only sisters serve in Either Kampala or Jinja, and they are not
allowed to be out past 6pm due to potential danger.
Love Elder Grilliot
Tuesday, March 12, 2013
Rainstorms and Drunks
It's raining it's poring! We
finally got rain this week, and the weather is feeling lots cooler than before.
Rainstorms in Uganda are crazy, one moment everything will be calm, and then
the next moment you will be able to hear the rain right as it begins
it's assault on us. Because most of the time we teach we do so outside you
will be able to hear something in the distance like a slow buzz and then out of
nowhere, Boom! It's raining hardcore everywhere. There have been a few times
where I would be teaching and then we start hearing rain in the distance, and
in unison all of us pause knowing exactly what what would happen next. Without
a single word spoken we gather up everything as quickly as we can and sprint to
the nearest shelter while the rain pounds on the roof above us. The climate
change between the dry season and the rainy season is like night and day.
Honestly the first day that it really started raining (since January) I got
soaked, and when I got home I was shivering and felt sooo sick. I was scared
that I had malaria or something, I was shivering uncontrollably
and had every blanket I could find on me but at the same time I was sweating a
ton and had the worst headache of my life. One of the older more experienced
missionaries I lived with though told me to try to take a warm shower and I
would feel tons better. The moment I turned on that hot water if felt like the sweet nectar of
life had been poured upon my soul. It was like I was taking a shower
in phoenix tears. It cured me right away. The other missionaries told
me later that when I got rained on I experienced such a dramatic climate change
that my body didn't know if it wanted to warm me up or cool me down so it just
kind of freaked out
This week our district did a lot of service projects. On Tuesday we helped our Elders Quorum president move, on Thursday we helped a lady cut down a few trees (with nothing except some hand axes), and on Saturday we helped someone move a pile of bricks. The service on Thursday was so cool, I had never chopped down a tree before and it took like 4 hours for two of us to cut down one tree. I still have some major blisters on my hands for swinging that ax over and over again. It makes me have lots of respect for lumberjacks. While we were cutting down the tree we had a funny run in with a super drunk guy. He was was freaking out that a bunch of whites were cutting down trees. He was running around, calling us fools and telling us he wanted to fight us for some reason. He was absolutely hilarious too. If I couldn't smell the alcohol on his breath and known that he was just speaking nonsense I would have guessed that he had an amazing sense of humor. He made me laugh a lot. And then another drunk wondered onto the scene and the two drunks started to call each other names, which was awesome because most of what they said made no sense but you could tell that they were really upsetting each other. In the end one of them just got disgusted with the other and walked away. Then the remaining drunk seeing whites cut down trees told us "this is no job for a bunch of Europeans" and he took the ax from my hand and started cutting the tree for me. He actually did a really good job cutting that tree too, did about half of the tree for me. But then after, he was trying to convince me that because he helped me I had to pay him 2 billion shillings. Haha what a crazy day.
The longer I've been on my mission the more and more I've grown to love the scriptures. I bought the institute Manuel for the Book of Mormon, and am restarting my reading from front to back using the institute Manuel side by side. It's kind of cool. I would recommend it.
Thanks for all of the emails and support that I've recieved this week. Love all of you
-Love Elder G.
This week our district did a lot of service projects. On Tuesday we helped our Elders Quorum president move, on Thursday we helped a lady cut down a few trees (with nothing except some hand axes), and on Saturday we helped someone move a pile of bricks. The service on Thursday was so cool, I had never chopped down a tree before and it took like 4 hours for two of us to cut down one tree. I still have some major blisters on my hands for swinging that ax over and over again. It makes me have lots of respect for lumberjacks. While we were cutting down the tree we had a funny run in with a super drunk guy. He was was freaking out that a bunch of whites were cutting down trees. He was running around, calling us fools and telling us he wanted to fight us for some reason. He was absolutely hilarious too. If I couldn't smell the alcohol on his breath and known that he was just speaking nonsense I would have guessed that he had an amazing sense of humor. He made me laugh a lot. And then another drunk wondered onto the scene and the two drunks started to call each other names, which was awesome because most of what they said made no sense but you could tell that they were really upsetting each other. In the end one of them just got disgusted with the other and walked away. Then the remaining drunk seeing whites cut down trees told us "this is no job for a bunch of Europeans" and he took the ax from my hand and started cutting the tree for me. He actually did a really good job cutting that tree too, did about half of the tree for me. But then after, he was trying to convince me that because he helped me I had to pay him 2 billion shillings. Haha what a crazy day.
The longer I've been on my mission the more and more I've grown to love the scriptures. I bought the institute Manuel for the Book of Mormon, and am restarting my reading from front to back using the institute Manuel side by side. It's kind of cool. I would recommend it.
Thanks for all of the emails and support that I've recieved this week. Love all of you
-Love Elder G.
Monday, March 4, 2013
Getting Use to the Culture of Uganda
Dear Family and Friends,
It's kind of
funny how numb I've become to everything in Uganda. No longer am I amazed when
I see cows running through the streets, or when I see naked children waddling
over to me to greet me in a foreign language. All of those new experiences are
now just part of daily life. I have to say though, the one thing that never
ceases to amaze me is the drunk people in Uganda. You can find people who
haven't have a job in over 10 years but somehow they have the funds to get
drunk everyday- all day. It just blows my mind how these homeless, jobless,
people can manage to find their way to large quantities of alcohol time after
time, despite their ever decreasing odds. There are some people I've met where
if they put as much energy into getting jobs and working, as they they do
finding and consuming alcohol, the next Bill Gates would be a Ugandan.
Uganda really is a great place to serve though, I often feel blessed to serve here. Some of the nicest people in the world live here. Due to their humbling circumstances they have really learned to be kind to others. On rare occasions though, rather than finding people who have become humbled because of their circumstances, they become bitter and cruel. Some of the best people I've ever met, I've met in Uganda, but also some of the worst as well. It's kind of interesting to see the huge rift between them.
The church is Lira is really starting to progress. We had our first young woman in excellence award given out this week to a 17 year old girl named Zienah. It was kind of cool to see that, and I'm really happy for her. She was baptized only about 2 years ago but she's already of the strongest woman in this branch. We also finally found an organist for our branch... or I guess I should say a keyboardist. In our branch we have one of those electronic keyboards but no one knows how to play it in our branch, (I'm now kicking myself for not learning how to play) but now one of the new missionaries who got transferred to Lira knows how to play for us. It's a very welcome advancement in this branch and a definite step up from singing hymns from memory.
My Mom sent me a few questions to answer so I'll include those at the bottom. If any of you have other questions you want to ask me just email me at scott.grilliot@myldsmail.net and I'll try to include them in my future posts.
-Elder Grilliot
1. What is the weirdest food you have there so far?
I haven't really eaten anything too strange yet. I've had pig intestine, which was kind of unusual the first time, but not too bad tasting. I've heard stories from some older missionaries though, about some really nasty dinner appointments they have had. Like ones where they would be served potatoes and they would find mice hidden in the serving bowl, or just really nasty stuff like that.
Uganda really is a great place to serve though, I often feel blessed to serve here. Some of the nicest people in the world live here. Due to their humbling circumstances they have really learned to be kind to others. On rare occasions though, rather than finding people who have become humbled because of their circumstances, they become bitter and cruel. Some of the best people I've ever met, I've met in Uganda, but also some of the worst as well. It's kind of interesting to see the huge rift between them.
The church is Lira is really starting to progress. We had our first young woman in excellence award given out this week to a 17 year old girl named Zienah. It was kind of cool to see that, and I'm really happy for her. She was baptized only about 2 years ago but she's already of the strongest woman in this branch. We also finally found an organist for our branch... or I guess I should say a keyboardist. In our branch we have one of those electronic keyboards but no one knows how to play it in our branch, (I'm now kicking myself for not learning how to play) but now one of the new missionaries who got transferred to Lira knows how to play for us. It's a very welcome advancement in this branch and a definite step up from singing hymns from memory.
My Mom sent me a few questions to answer so I'll include those at the bottom. If any of you have other questions you want to ask me just email me at scott.grilliot@myldsmail.net and I'll try to include them in my future posts.
-Elder Grilliot
1. What is the weirdest food you have there so far?
I haven't really eaten anything too strange yet. I've had pig intestine, which was kind of unusual the first time, but not too bad tasting. I've heard stories from some older missionaries though, about some really nasty dinner appointments they have had. Like ones where they would be served potatoes and they would find mice hidden in the serving bowl, or just really nasty stuff like that.
2. How often do you see a monkey or
baboon? Are they hanging out on the road
Honestly
you don't see that many monkeys this far north in Uganda. If you go farther
South or you drive out into the wilderness you'll see them all over the place,
but it's rare to find them running around in the road in Lira.
3. Are you able to wake up ok? And
are you sleeping okay?
Sleeping
is the easy, I haven't met a single missionary yet who has had a problem
sleeping. Your so tired at night that sleeping is definitely not an issue. The
difficult part is waking up. I have had the most difficult time in the morning
waking up and staying awake. Even all the way going up to personal study time,
some days it can be such a struggle to stay awake while I'm studying.
4. How much $ do you get allowance for
the month? Have you ever had extra left over and if so does it get dumped
into the next month?
In
US dollars I get about 120$ per month (or 420,000 shillings). I usually don't
have any left over at the end of the month, but if I ever do I usually just
spend it on something really nice at the end of the month, (like last month,
all of us living in the same house put all of our extra money together and
threw ourselvs a pizza party).
5. Do you have a place locally to buy a
camera? We are dying to see more pics.
Yes
there are plenty of places to buy cameras in downtown Lira. You won't have to
worry about that. Most missionaries end up having to buy a camera in Uganda at
some point, because theirs gets stolen, or broken, or something like that.
6. Have you been able to keep your bikes
safe from getting stolen?
Yep
we just have to lock them up together every time we stop somewhere.
7. Do you have a place to buy new shirts
for yourself or a new suit coat in Lira?
I'm
sure that there are places in Lira where you can, I just haven't gotten around
to doing so yet. Right now I'm fine with wearing shirts and pants that are a
little big on me.
8. What are you doing for P-day exercise
or fun? Did you play dodge ball with the kids?
On
P-day we usually go out and play soccer, but recently our soccer ball got poped
when it got kicked into a thorny bush. So now most P-days we kind of just
chill.
A few weeks ago though we played dodge ball with the young men on P-day, it was way fun.
A few weeks ago though we played dodge ball with the young men on P-day, it was way fun.
9. In church on Sunday what has been the
hardest thing to teach the people about the running of the church?
Home
teaching is probably the most difficult thing for people to do in Uganda. There
are only a couple of people in our branch who consistently do their home
teaching each month. I think that it may take quite a few years before
home/visiting teaching becomes implemented properly in the church.
10. Who has been your favorite
investigator so far and why?
One of the Coolest investigators I've met so far is this guy called Iassac. He's a very smart guy and very self sufficient. Using nothing except for plastic bags and sticks he built his own greenhouse. He then goes around and gathers seeds from the ground like from mango trees, pow-pow trees, pineapple, jack fruit, and bananas. He gathers up soil from the ground and puts in into plastic bags and grows the seed from there. He then sells the tree right as its beginning to get larger, and makes a really good profit from it. It really is an ingenious way of making money, all he has to buy is the plastic bags. I really like the guy too. He's really easy to teach and accepts just about everything we tell him. His main problem though is just that he's never come to church. We invite him every week and he tells us that he's coming but its been almost 4 weeks and he has never come, so sadly we may have to drop him soon. :(
Love Elder Grilliot
One of the Coolest investigators I've met so far is this guy called Iassac. He's a very smart guy and very self sufficient. Using nothing except for plastic bags and sticks he built his own greenhouse. He then goes around and gathers seeds from the ground like from mango trees, pow-pow trees, pineapple, jack fruit, and bananas. He gathers up soil from the ground and puts in into plastic bags and grows the seed from there. He then sells the tree right as its beginning to get larger, and makes a really good profit from it. It really is an ingenious way of making money, all he has to buy is the plastic bags. I really like the guy too. He's really easy to teach and accepts just about everything we tell him. His main problem though is just that he's never come to church. We invite him every week and he tells us that he's coming but its been almost 4 weeks and he has never come, so sadly we may have to drop him soon. :(
Love Elder Grilliot
Monday, February 25, 2013
The Lady from Lira
Dear Family and Friends,
Were you able to get photos taken (by borrowing a camera) of the last two companions? (His last one broke)
Glad you got Linda’s package. I know she is happy to have gotten the shoutout in the last e-mail. What cool stuff did you get from them? (Thanks for looking out for our Elder. Linda you're awesome!)
Are you rushed on e-mail time? How much time are you allowed? Your last e-mail was short..I love the long ones the best! Sarah and Todd both wrote letters and they will show up in the package that I sent maybe a week ago.
Are you still losing weight?
How are the shoes holding up?
Are you still working out in the mornings?
Sarah wants to know how your“pigstead” is doing? Hehehehe (Inside joke)
Let us know when you get your debit card in the mail, okay?
It seems that the longer I am in Uganda
the more I have learned to respect the Gospel of Jesus Christ. It may seem
simple at first: Faith, Repentance, Baptism, etc, but really, there's kind
of a beauty behind it all. Learning more about the Gospel and how it changes
lives, thoughts, and behavior, makes me realize how important the
Church of Jesus Christ is to the whole world.
In this mission because of how
young the church is here (every single member in Lira is a convert) the largest
part of our job as missionaries is to help the church to develop and become
more like the organization that you find in the States, Europe, and other parts
of the world. We need to help the church to learn to function, and become more
like you see it around the world. Sundays can be a little stressful at
times because its up to us missionaries to guide the church meetings and
members to fulfill their callings. It may take a few years but I
really hope that I can see the day that the church in
Lira operates the way that the church was meant to. I think
that's the reason why most of the missionaries in Uganda are either from the
States, South Africa, Zimbabwe, or Kenya. In all of these places the
church has been around long enough that it operates the way it's supposed to.
This week I had an interesting
experience with an older lady who chased me down as we were going to
an appointment. She chased us down shouting something in Langi (the
language used by locals in Lira), and when she got to us she got down or her
knees and started pleading with us in Langi. It was kinda freaky cause we had
no idea what her problem was and she made us feel really uneasy. We were
getting ready to walk away from her (because for all we knew she
was probably just asking for money or something) when she then took
out a picture of a young Ugandan man wearing a white shirt and tie and a
black name tag that said "Elder Sencka" and "The church of
Jesus Christ of latter day Saints" We managed to grab someone off the
street that could translate for us and then this lady told us a story about the
missionary in this picture, "Elder Sencka". What had happened is that
her son, Elder Sencka, had moved to Kampala in 1992 and stayed there for
schooling. While he was there the missionaries found him and converted him and
he became a strong member of the church. In fact he even decided to serve a
mission, and went to serve in the South Africa, Cape Town mission. He served his
2 years and then came home and got released, but then rather than stay in
Uganda, immediately after being released he used the visa that he
had received from his mission (it hadn't expired yet) and
returned back to South Africa, where he lived as an illegal immigrant.
Since then he has gotten married and become a citizen there, but now
It's been over ten years since he has ever seen his family and this
old Lady (his mother) was now pleading for us to bring him back to Uganda (even
though we really have no control over that). As strange of a
circumstance as this was my companion and I were talking and it turns out that
his isn't a rare thing. Especially back in the 80s when the church
was just developing in Kenya there were missionaries who would go on missions
to the States, and then some of them wouldn't even finish their mission, they
would just disappear. Become Illegal immigrants. That's why today most
missionaries from Africa serve in
another African country. Occasionally you'll hear about an
African missionary serving in the States but it's really pretty rare.
Honestly you don't realize how
good you have it untill you come to a 3rd world country. Everyone back home
needs to take full advantage of the life that they live and live it to the
fullest. I know I will whenever I return home.
Have a great week everyone, and
I'll update you next time.
MOM- Got a package from you this week Thanks for
the power bars and pictures of the familly. Honestly though my favorite
part of the package was the letters from Todd and Sarah. What's Todd's and
Sarah's email, so I can talk to them as well. It was really good to hear
from them.
You know that blog
that you were reading before I left on my mission. The one by Elder Brandon
Winters serving in the Uganda Kampala mission. Well he's sitting right next to
me right now. We live in the same house and he's my Zone Leader. Just thought
you might be interested to know.
To Answer your questions:
1- I was able to get photos taken by companions but none of
them ever had a cord to connect their camera to the computer so I was never
able to send you any pics (sorry).
2- Linda got me some sweets, some cliff bars, some really
cool looking ties, and some word find books. Really liked the bubble gum they
sent. Its really funny to blow a bubble in front of some little kids (who have
never seen bubble gum) and they freak out. It's hallarious.
3- I get 2 hrs to email, but honestly its hard sometimes to
think about what I should email you. I like it when you send me questions, it
makes it alot easier for me to know what to email about. I think I
got the package with the letters in them, and I got the pictures in them as
well. Everyone in my house was interested to see what
my family looked like. Good to finally have pictures of the
fam.
4- Ya I'm still losing weight. Really fast too. The suite
coat that I came with is huge on me now. soon I'm going to need a new one.
5- The shoes are still going good. Their supper dirty all
the time but they're champs. I could see them holding up for another 12 months
at least. I look at the shoes that the older missionaries have and how poor of
a state their in and I'm really glad I came with 2 pairs of shoes.
6- Working out has become much more difficult since I became
a District Leader. I usually need to stay up later than normal because I need
to receive/ send reports and this makes me much more tired in the
morning. I sometimes find myself falling asleep in the living room
while stretching before workouts. I'm trying to get better at going to
sleep on time, but it's really hard sometimes.
7- Tell sarah to email me and then i can tell her how my
pigstead is doing.
8- I will don't worry.
Love you guys have a great week. Stay strong in the church
and Love everyone as the Savior did.
-Elder Grilliot
Monday, February 18, 2013
Insight into the Lira Mission
The mission in Uganda is about to become reborn. In the next 6 months were
going to loose about half of the missionaries that are in this mission
currently, and receive over 100 new missionaries (including a new mission
president). I've also heard talk of them making Ethiopia its own mission
sometime in the next year or so, that would be really cool to see while I'm
serving here.
Recently Ive been feeling very well adjusted to the heat here, the only time I really felt horrible about the heat was on Sunday when I wore my suit to church. I was sweating like crazy that day. The dryness is really what gets me though, I don't think it's rained since new years except maybe once or twice, and now all of Lira looks like a desert. The dust and dirt and sand everywhere is awful, especially if its a windy day. On some days you'll get home and your shoes will just be full of sand. I'm looking forward to rainy season next month.
Probably the most difficult thing about doing missionary work in Lira is just dealing with such a different culture. The culture of Uganda goes almost against the culture of the church, and helping people to understand and develop Christlike attributes can really be a struggle. In Uganda the biggest things we missionaries struggle with is:
1- Lazyness. Even if people have a testimony of the gospel getting them to church is so difficult to do. You can talk and talk and talk all you want but many people have such a trial in overcoming their laziness that for some people even if you baptize them they will become less active very fast.
2- The law of Chastity (A.K.A. SEX). In the culture here in Uganda its actually acceptable (and sometimes even celebrated) for a couple to have their first child before marriage. This can cause so many problems for not just the marriage but also for the child, especially if the husband leaves before the child is born, or if the husband is expected to pay dowry before marriage and never comes up with the funds.
3- Going to church for the wrong reasons. For about 90% of the people in Uganda they are Christians (I'd say about 9% Muslim and 1% Jew). And for all of these Christians only about 5% of them actually know why they are Christians, the rest of them are only a member of their church because that was the church they grew up in, and it's more of a culture than a church, Which wouldn't be so bad if the church's here did their part in teaching them true doctrine. Most of the churches here basically just rob their congregation. They make them pay for baptism, for repentance, for listening to the service, everything. And because people are so dedicated to their church they'll eat it all up, no matter how much they have to pay. Honestly these churches and these pastors have no idea what they're teaching most of the time either, they just do it because they know that there's money in it. I can't tell you how many people I've asked if they know what faith is, or what baptism is for, or why Jesus came to the earth, and they honestly have no clue. Its really disappointing to see, especially when people are so dedicated to their church that they will never leave it, no matter how much we teach them.
Notwithstanding all of these problems Uganda is still a great place to serve a mission, the people here can be frustrating at times but really all of them have good hearts. And they're are lots of people here who really do recognize truth and convert to it. It's just that because people are so rigidly following traditions that they halt their own progression. I think it was Albert Einstein who said that the definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over, but expecting a different result each time. That's really what you see in Africa today, people always talk about wanting a change but no one is willing to do anything about it. There was an apostle that was asked once "when will Africa stop suffering so much" and the apostle's reply was "When people stop following the traditions of their fathers, and members of the church consistently pay their tithing is when Africa as a whole will begin to prosper". From what I've seen here in Uganda, I believe that 100%.
I would like to thank Aunt Linda and Uncle Gene for sending that care package (just got it this week), it was such a good suprise. Thank you so much!
Have a good week everyone, and I'll talk to you all next week -Elder Grilliot
Recently Ive been feeling very well adjusted to the heat here, the only time I really felt horrible about the heat was on Sunday when I wore my suit to church. I was sweating like crazy that day. The dryness is really what gets me though, I don't think it's rained since new years except maybe once or twice, and now all of Lira looks like a desert. The dust and dirt and sand everywhere is awful, especially if its a windy day. On some days you'll get home and your shoes will just be full of sand. I'm looking forward to rainy season next month.
Probably the most difficult thing about doing missionary work in Lira is just dealing with such a different culture. The culture of Uganda goes almost against the culture of the church, and helping people to understand and develop Christlike attributes can really be a struggle. In Uganda the biggest things we missionaries struggle with is:
1- Lazyness. Even if people have a testimony of the gospel getting them to church is so difficult to do. You can talk and talk and talk all you want but many people have such a trial in overcoming their laziness that for some people even if you baptize them they will become less active very fast.
2- The law of Chastity (A.K.A. SEX). In the culture here in Uganda its actually acceptable (and sometimes even celebrated) for a couple to have their first child before marriage. This can cause so many problems for not just the marriage but also for the child, especially if the husband leaves before the child is born, or if the husband is expected to pay dowry before marriage and never comes up with the funds.
3- Going to church for the wrong reasons. For about 90% of the people in Uganda they are Christians (I'd say about 9% Muslim and 1% Jew). And for all of these Christians only about 5% of them actually know why they are Christians, the rest of them are only a member of their church because that was the church they grew up in, and it's more of a culture than a church, Which wouldn't be so bad if the church's here did their part in teaching them true doctrine. Most of the churches here basically just rob their congregation. They make them pay for baptism, for repentance, for listening to the service, everything. And because people are so dedicated to their church they'll eat it all up, no matter how much they have to pay. Honestly these churches and these pastors have no idea what they're teaching most of the time either, they just do it because they know that there's money in it. I can't tell you how many people I've asked if they know what faith is, or what baptism is for, or why Jesus came to the earth, and they honestly have no clue. Its really disappointing to see, especially when people are so dedicated to their church that they will never leave it, no matter how much we teach them.
Notwithstanding all of these problems Uganda is still a great place to serve a mission, the people here can be frustrating at times but really all of them have good hearts. And they're are lots of people here who really do recognize truth and convert to it. It's just that because people are so rigidly following traditions that they halt their own progression. I think it was Albert Einstein who said that the definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over, but expecting a different result each time. That's really what you see in Africa today, people always talk about wanting a change but no one is willing to do anything about it. There was an apostle that was asked once "when will Africa stop suffering so much" and the apostle's reply was "When people stop following the traditions of their fathers, and members of the church consistently pay their tithing is when Africa as a whole will begin to prosper". From what I've seen here in Uganda, I believe that 100%.
I would like to thank Aunt Linda and Uncle Gene for sending that care package (just got it this week), it was such a good suprise. Thank you so much!
Have a good week everyone, and I'll talk to you all next week -Elder Grilliot
Tuesday, February 12, 2013
New Companion Elder Wangui
This has been a pretty crazy week,
lots of changes. At the beginning of this week everything was fine, Elder
Anderson and I had a really good time together (he's been a really cool
companion and we got along really well) and got lots of work done. Really, I
liked everyone in my house and it's been a really fun transfer to spend
together. So then when Transfer news came lots of changes were made. Our whole
house has pretty much changed ownership and even my companion (Elder Anderson)
was shifted to Mbale, and made a zone leader. Now it's just me left and
I've even been made a district leader. Things just feel very different in our
home now, almost like it's a new house.
My new Companion is named Elder Wangui, and he's from Kenya. He's been on his mission for about a year and a half but he's spent the last 7 or 8 months in Ethiopia. He's had some crazy stories about things that have happened to him in Ethiopia. Man, that place just sounds like a completely different mission. They have to learn a new language, (Amharic) they have to learn a new culture, and getting lessons/baptizing is much more difficult. To be honest I hope that they never transfer me to Ethiopia (even though I've heard that it's a lot cooler temperature wise). Ethiopia is not how most people imagine it, or I should say it's not how I imagined it. I used to think Ethiopia was the poorest country in all of Africa, that It was just a giant Savanna. But From what Elder Wangui has told me Ethiopia is actually very mountainous. It usually is like 70 or 80 degrees most days just because of how high the altitude is, and because it's further from the equator than Uganda is. Ive also been told that in the last few years Ethiopia has gotten lots of help from China, and that because of that the larger City's have gotten quite a bit more advanced. In some parts of Ethiopia you can forget that your in a 3rd world country.
Thanks for all of the Love and support from all of you.
-Elder Grilliot
My new Companion is named Elder Wangui, and he's from Kenya. He's been on his mission for about a year and a half but he's spent the last 7 or 8 months in Ethiopia. He's had some crazy stories about things that have happened to him in Ethiopia. Man, that place just sounds like a completely different mission. They have to learn a new language, (Amharic) they have to learn a new culture, and getting lessons/baptizing is much more difficult. To be honest I hope that they never transfer me to Ethiopia (even though I've heard that it's a lot cooler temperature wise). Ethiopia is not how most people imagine it, or I should say it's not how I imagined it. I used to think Ethiopia was the poorest country in all of Africa, that It was just a giant Savanna. But From what Elder Wangui has told me Ethiopia is actually very mountainous. It usually is like 70 or 80 degrees most days just because of how high the altitude is, and because it's further from the equator than Uganda is. Ive also been told that in the last few years Ethiopia has gotten lots of help from China, and that because of that the larger City's have gotten quite a bit more advanced. In some parts of Ethiopia you can forget that your in a 3rd world country.
Thanks for all of the Love and support from all of you.
-Elder Grilliot
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